Below is a brief over view of my ex husbands relationship with a woman named Margery from Canada. I can not of course post the graphic pictures they sent to each other nor do I feel it is necessarily germane to include the conversation between them that are obviously based on self gratification while viewing said pictures. That being said what follows is the progression of there relationship over the years from the first email I was able to get to the last. There are literally tons of communication that I was unable to collect.
From Al:
To Margery:
MISSING YOU. Hope work is going well and that your students are not causing you undo stress… if they are, I will rub your shoulders for the next time we can chat. Will you be on this weekend? Hope I can see you.
A
From Margery:
To Al:
Very nice to get your e-mail. I miss you too and I know it seems like forever and a day since we have talked but we will have our time again. I think of you often and wish we could spend more time online together. Life is so busy, seems all I do is work and taxi my children around. I love doing things with them but after working all day it’s just so tiring to have to keep going.
I have some students this year who are just plain rotten and so I feel a little stressed about that but I say “kill them with kindness” Some of these kids only know drugs and fighting, it’s a shame. I am looking forward to the next time we connect. I am heading to Halifax tomorrow for a conference but will be back Sunday. I’ll try to be online in the afternoon. Maybe we will be so lucky and catch each other. I’ll talk to you soon. Margery.
PS I hope you are feeling better from your cold.
From Al:
To Margery:
Do you have an AOL instant messenger account. I hope you do because then I can chat with you from work when you get home from school. Your smile will get you through the year with a couple of bad apples. I know your heart is pure and will endure to get through to the rest of the students that really need and want you. I know I would. Although it has been so long since we were able to chat… my heart will never forget you… and will be there for you when we can finally connect again.
From Margery:
To Al:
I just got your email, well I got it yesterday. I did have an aol account but my husband keeps deleting the program from the computer. I only ever used a few times so I didn’t see the need to have it either. I will download it again but chances are he will wonder why it is back on the pc and delete, he thinks perhaps its the kids downloading stuff unnecessarily. I’ll do what I can. I started my huge research paper and just got my topic approved last night at class. it’s pretty bad and I must be a nerd but I am so excited about what I came up and the professor loves it too. people say I am the teachers pet. LOL (I don’t mind so long as I get a good mark!!)
Thank you for your words of encouragement with those students who were giving me trouble, it felt like they were kicking my feet from under me. But you are right, there are far too many kids who love and need me and who I can touch in a positive way, so thank you!! I needed that.
I hope all is well with you and your family. Please let me know what you have been up to. And I’ll work on getting AOL back up and running without suspicion. Take care, I am thinking about you. Margery.
From Al:
To Margery:
How do I become the teacher’s pet, and what fringe benefits do I get????????
Thinking of you daily, and can’t wait to chat again. So glad that you are doing well in school. What is your paper titled? if it’s fun, can I be your test subject or practice dummy? LOL!!! I hope to catch up with you this weekend since I have missed you so much. I can picture and feel your warm body as we lay close. My dreams are so vivid like you are actually there.
C U soon!
Al
From Margery:
To Al:
Ok here are a few, no dirty ones, some pics in return would be appreciated!!!!!M
March 21, 2008:
From Al:
To Margery:
I miss you… went to the Bahamas alone just to clear my mind and think. Was wishing you were there the entire time. Your always on my mind angel. Wish I could see you sometime soon.
Always thinking of you,
Al
( At the time in question we had in fact just come back from a week long vacation in the Bahamas for our tenth anniversary. I had thought we had reconnected and came home full of high hopes that our marriage could be saved, but apparently he was thinking of Margery the whole time.)
August 16 2009
From Al:
To Margery:
My god you have the most amazing smile and eyes I have ever seen.
September 1, 2009
From Al:
To Margery:
I can’t believe I keep missing you. It pains me when I get a message that I should have been on line to see. Your smile always brightens my day and gives me amazing thoughts for weeks. I wish things could be so much easier to al least meet you… hold you … and hopefully feel your very soft lips on mine as we hug for hours. I have never met a woman as special as you and probably never will. My dreams will live on as long as possible in hopes of holding you tightly just once in my life…. like a fairy tale ending of a dream come true. Please keep in touch princess.
( It was around this time in our lives he started calling me and his daughters Princess all the time. YUCK)
December 21, 2009
From Margery:
To Al:
Hi there! I sent you an email a few days ago but I didn’t hear back. Did you receive it? anyways, hope all is well.
Take care Margery
December 22, 2009
To Margery:
From Al:
Princess,
Once again you have made me smile as I stared at your amazing eyes. I have figured out how to take pix with my webcam so I will get some good ( clean) ones for you as soon as possible and send them. While you wait for the better ones I thought it only fair to at least send you something so here it is…. as bad as it is… I will work on much better for you. I miss you greatly and wish we could connect to chat once again soon.
August 26, 2010
From Margery:
To Al:
HI….. Awhile ago you gave me your cell number so we could text…. would you be willing to give it to me again? Hope all is well Al! Margery.
From Al:
To Margery:
Princess…. I would give you my heart and my last breath of air….. of course I will give you my cell number again …….XXX_XXX_XXXX
Sorry I am so slow to reply usually, I don’t often get onto this account….. in fact, I only come here lately to see if you are here.
Al
September 30, 2010
From Margery:
To Al:
HI! Thanks for your cell number! It’s my turn to apologize for not getting back to you sooner. Like you, I don’t often check this account but was glad to find your email! I talk about you a lot to my friend Michelle and she thinks I should stop being a chicken shit and just arrange to meet you. LOL My husband and I had a trial separation this summer and to tell you the truth, I was very happy but he wants to make a go of it. I think what’s holding me back from you is that when I meet you there is a good chance I will want to continue the relationship and if that happens I would like to be “strings free” if that makes any sense. Anyways I feel like I am rambling and all I want is to be open and honest with you. I am catholic and sometimes I carry around more guilt than I have to lol…. I added some pictures to my account … can you see them? I will add more if you can see them.
Take care Al. I am thinking of you! Margery.
October 2, 2010
From Al:
To Margery:
Princess….. not only can I see your pix but they make me fall in love with you all over again each time. I wish I knew when you were signed in so we can shat and stop playing tag. I think of you ALWAYS and dream of a day I can see your eyes for the first time. I wish I could hold you close and make every care and concern float away as I softly kiss your neck while we hug in the most enduring embrace. If you have any sort of schedule when you actually come on… please let me know so I can catch my angel just one more time. I miss you so much and your smile always melts my heart.
Al
October 21, 2011
From Al:
To Margery:
COMPLETELY UNFAIR.
How can you be so beautiful and expect me to be able to function properly.
How can you send me such amazing pictures and expect me to be able to walk easily.
How can your eyes look so perfect and I am not supposed to need you in my arms.
How can your smile be so amazing that my heart pounds out of my chest just to see you .
How can you tease me endlessly but not let me hold you close and slide slowly inside you for hours as we kiss and hug and make love from sunset to sunrise.
GOD I MISS YOU LIKE I MISS EXYGEN TO BREATH.